श्रीसनातन

The four Āśramas — one life, four dharmas

आश्रम

Also written: ashrama · four stages of life · brahmacharya grihastha vanaprastha sannyasa · आश्रम

Āśrama comes from ā-śram, 'to exert' — a stage in which a particular kind of effort is appropriate. A human life is divided into four, each with its own svadharma, so that the demands of one age are not carried unchanged into another.

The four stages
ĀśramaRoughlyCentral workDominant aim
BrahmacaryaBirth to ~25Study, discipline, the building of capacity and characterDharma
Gṛhastha~25 to ~50Marriage, family, livelihood, and the support of every other stageArtha and kāma, within dharma
Vānaprastha~50 to ~75Handing over; withdrawal from acquisition; counsel rather than commandDharma turning to mokṣa
Sannyāsa~75 onwardComplete renunciation of role, property and identityMokṣa

The householder carries the rest

यथा नदीनदाः सर्वे सागरे यान्ति संस्थितिम्। तथैवाश्रमिणः सर्वे गृहस्थे यान्ति संस्थितिम्॥

yathā nadī-nadāḥ sarve sāgare yānti saṁsthitim tathaivāśramiṇaḥ sarve gṛhasthe yānti saṁsthitim

As all rivers and streams find their rest in the ocean, so all those in the other stages find their support in the householder.

Manu Smṛti 6.90

The student is fed by the householder. The forest-dweller and the renunciate are fed by the householder. The rites of the ancestors are performed by the householder. This is why the tradition, for all its praise of renunciation, calls the gṛhastha āśrama the greatest of the four — and why a young man who wants to skip it is generally told to grow up first.

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