Vānaprastha — the stage of withdrawal
वानप्रस्थ
Also written: vanaprastha · forest dweller stage · retirement hinduism · third stage of life
Vānaprastha — 'gone to the forest' — begins when the next generation is capable, traditionally marked by the birth of a grandchild. Its subject is the deliberate reduction of one's own weight in the world, while one is still strong enough to do it by choice.
गृहस्थस्तु यदा पश्येद्वलीपलितमात्मनः। अपत्यस्यैव चापत्यं तदारण्यं समाश्रयेत्॥
gṛhasthas tu yadā paśyed valī-palitam ātmanaḥ apatyasyaiva cāpatyaṁ tadāraṇyaṁ samāśrayet
When the householder sees his skin wrinkled and his hair white, and the child of his child — then let him withdraw to the forest.
What it actually requires
- Handing over the household, the business, the authority — completely, not nominally.
- Reducing possessions and wants; the classical form is literal withdrawal to a simpler dwelling.
- Remaining available as counsel when asked, and not otherwise. The shift from command to counsel is the whole discipline.
- Increasing study, japa, and contemplation; a diet and routine that quieten rather than stimulate.
- The spouse may accompany; this is not a stage of abandonment.
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